Saturday, December 27, 2008

Holiday Greetings From Our Family


I have been taking a blogging sabbatical while I try to get control of the things that NEED to be done.

I thought though I would share with you our holiday photo. As many of my friends and family know I take the environment, recycling, reducing and reusing quite seriously, as evidenced by my request that Santa bring me a red wiggler composter for my basement. At any rate I have not sent out a holiday card in some years for just this reason.

It seems that this is a perfect venue to send out the Holiday greetings to all that I normally would via mail.

We had a great time with my family this Christmas. HD and I were blessed to get to spend a few extra days at Papa and Oma's house with Uncle Dan (my brother) and Aunt Heather (my sister-in-law). We played wii, looked at baby things (Uncle Dan and Aunt Heather are expecting their first baby due in May) and ate a lot of food. My sister and her family joined us Tuesday and Scott and Vincent on Wednesday. It was a time of laughter and merriment.

Again We hope that the year treated you as well as it treated us, and Happy Holidays!





Thursday, December 11, 2008

Head is Spinning


I have not blogged in some weeks, feels like years. I am trying to push my way out of my hole. I have so many things on my mind and plate currently that I go to bed with a headache and wake with one.

Recently I took H.D. to the art supply store. He loves looking at the things there and planning out his creativity. He really wants one of those posable drawing mannequins. The really small desktop versions. It was so cute that how can you say no? Well I did in honor of Christmas.

I did let him get a sketch book, some charcoal pencils, and little smudgers to experiment with. Now there are smudgy and smeared pictures lining the first 5 pages of the book. One of the drawings is a huge building, a skyscraper I think. Below it underground is the devil, and above it in the sky is what looks like a fly. I am told that the fly is God. Interesting...I think that he is exploring perspective *LOL*.

Another drawing is a lighthouse. It was really not too bad.

The Nutcracker, a little scary, but I think it was the teeth that set me off. I have this thing about really gnarly looking teeth and that one had some whoppers.

H.D. has had this obsession with Nutcrackers for ages. He loves them, wants one, and this year his 3rd grade class took a field trip to "The Nutcracker". He loved it.

Well that is all I have time for today. I am watching over my freshman students as they do the prewriting, rough draft of their final essay exam. The mod is almost over and I feel compelled to grade a paper or two in the time remaining.

Peace.
d

P.S. I was feeling quite cold, and in honor of warmer days a cute pic of my nieces E & E. Enjoy!



Friday, December 5, 2008

Yay!

My brother and sister-in-law are going to have a baby! WHOO HOO! It has been a long rode for them, and I can relate.

Congrats and looking forward the end of May and to coming down in June to hold a wee baby!


D

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Halloween




I am home sick today...day 2. My munchkin gave me a horrible horrible cold. I was at a conference on Monday and suffered through the day on Zicam, Ricola, Coffee, and Puffs. Then things got worse and Tuesday I was out of bed for a total of maybe 5 hours. UGH. Cough, Goo, Aches...ridiculous.

I thought in honor of feeling so icky, and H.D. returning to school today (he was the perpetrator of the illness and stayed home Monday and Tuesday) I would post some Halloween pictures for all.





















HD and his teacher

Friday, November 7, 2008

Moved!!!

On election day, I sat, as most of the country did, glued to my television set rooting for my candidate. I watched in awe as the President elect gave a speech that brought me to tears (of joy). I was completely moved by a variety of things that he said, and his gift with words. I had goosebumps for the duration of the speech. I am so encouraged by the change.

My dad made a really cool observation, though I am sure he is not the first to make it. The president that issued the Emancipation Proclamation, Abraham Lincoln was from Illinois, and our first African American president...from Illinois.

Pretty Cool.


Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Out of the Loop

Hello to all...

I have been absent from blogging. I had a rough last couple of months. Very busy at home, work, school, and life.

Scott has started driving again, and even started back to work yesterday. His life is slowly returning to normal. I have grown very tired of being a taxi so it is good that Scott is able to drive.

My best friend "Aunt Emily" bought a house not quite 2 miles from our house. I am so excited for her and have been helping a lot. Well I think a lot, perhaps I am not though. Have you ever wondered about perception? What a funny thing.

Along with her mother and grandmother we have the kitchen just about finished...minus a table and any real furniture. :) She is going to have carpets cleaned and such, so big stuff will come later.

HD said the cutest thing about the house. We were over helping Em clean the storage room so that some things could be moved over. I was finishing up the refrigerator, and Scott was in the storage room. I told HD he could go help his dad. He said, "Nah, I just want to get to know this place." So he did...he sat on the porch and read his book, explored the outside, had a ball "getting to know" Aunt Em's house.

Well I am taking a break from grading and I should get back at that!

More to come...
D

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Flat Tires and other Sunday Nonsense

So...I got a flat tire on the toaster today.
(Happier Toaster Days on the beach in Galveston...happier days for the toaster, happier days for Galveston)


I was out shopping with a friend for a baby shower gift. I was on my way to the ATM for some cash and I thought I heard a funky sound in the tire area. As I turned a corner some guy yelled "FLAT TIRE!" I parked in an empty parking lot in the shade. Changed out to the donut and took the tire to the tire shop. Amazingly, of all the people entering a pizzeria close by only 1 guy offered to help. It was well after I had gotten the flat off, and I can change my own tire. Thanks Dad for making me learn to change a tire before I could drive to Grand Island. Anyway the tire was not repairable. Eighty-five bucks down the tubes for a new tire. UGH. Oh well at least it did not blow out and everyone is safe.

Scott had his cast off last week. It was pretty nasty! Scott started to scratch his leg and the skin from a whole month flaked all over the exam table. Harrison and I were gagging. Scott is in a hinged brace that only allows him to bend about 15 degrees. He starts PT tomorrow. We are moving right along.

More later
d

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Pretty cool Blog Fodder

Oma (is German for Grandmother), my mom for those that don't know, sent me this via email. I agree that one of the most annoying things in life is peeling hard boiled eggs. I always love them but DETEST the peeling process. They always end up mangled and looking like eggs with leprosy.

Check out the solution to this.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Hysterical

Could Tina Fey look any more like Sarah Palin?? Amy Poehler is strikingly Hillary.

"Boner-shrinker", Palin posing, and borrowing Hil's "pair"; some of the most witty political comedy this year!

Friday, September 19, 2008

Been A While

First I feel I must apologize to my devoted followers *cough*. Sorry that I have been less than regular with posts. I guess a re-cap is in order.
Scott--Still in cast, still hobbling.
H.D.--Splint free and loving life. I think that he tried out the monkey bars again.

Almost back to normal.

I have been busy as usual between teaching my kids, mentoring student teachers, grading papers, working on grad class, and driving invalids.

Yesterday I had a slight moody melt down and was irrational and crabby to the guys. I am just tired of feeling like I am constantly chasing my tail, and having ZERO time to myself (or even shared grown up time) has been stressing me out. I would just like a nice dinner (that I did not have to cook or help cook), much adult beverage, adult conversation and hilarity.

Tonight I was going to go to school to the football game, and then realized that I needed a break from young people.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Perhaps the BEST Thing on the Internet



I don't care what anyone says...This is just brilliant! There are no limits to creativity and free time.

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

New Cast For Scott

Today was a hectic day. I had to run Scott to the doc to have a new cast put on. His leg had shrunk, well ok the swelling went down. Anyway, Scott to ortho doc, run H.D. to school, go back to get Scott, take him home, get to school and teach a half day, then collaborate for the other half.

I got to see the incision, and watch them put the new cast on. Scott said the most satisfying thing he has done in a LONG time was scratching his leg. : )

So I should have posted a birthday message to my darling yesterday. I forgot. I did not forget his day, but forgot to blog about it. Thirty-Seven came quietly, with a family dinner and our usual silliness.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY HON!


Tired tonight...Wondering how long I can keep up this pace. I am so grateful for the kindness of my family. Aunt Emily really is the good daughter, she has been helping with the chauffeuring...as has Aunt Bee and tomorrow Grandmother Jo will get in on the action too. Man...I should stop being tired and worrying and start feeling blessed by the kindness and love of family.

Poem of the moment:

Stop
Listen
to the sound of your engine ticking
slow down the racing
enjoy the breeze and night noises
Deep Breath
Enjoy
Life

Wow...nice. Inspiration from my craziness. Peace.

Thank you everyone.
*humbled* D

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Love Compared

Love Compared
by Nizar Qabbani

Poem No.: 55 النص العربي: لا يوجد


I do not resemble your other lovers, my lady
should another give you a cloud
I give you rain
Should he give you a lantern, I
will give you the moon
Should he give you a branch
I will give you the trees
And if another gives you a ship
I shall give you the journey.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Doc Appointment #1

HD visited the Ortho doc today and he got to rid himself of one splint. He has a free left arm. The left side was the "better" of the two arms. He was so excited that he did a little dance in the doctors office. He still has to wear the right splint for another couple of weeks, but we were able to see where the new bone was growing in on the right to fill in the little notch... Pretty wild.

Ortho Doc Appointment #2 to come...

Scott to wear cast for 3 more weeks.

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Rocking Large Group Today


So my day started with this---
KIDS ARE FUNNY!!! I love being a teacher.

I also co-created and developed a rocking large group today to about 550 freshmen with my friend Steph. Check it out.

This is about "Exploding the Moment" in narrative writing. Unfortunately you do not get the benefit of hearing the lecture that accompanied and explained much of what is represented here, but many of the concepts still stand alone.

For some reason the audio is messed up, but just mute it and watch.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Surgery

Scott went under the knife today. We just met with the doc about 1 hour ago. I am blogging in the waiting room while he is in recovery. Mom and Dad are here. Proof that some people are enjoying surgery more than others.

Scott's surgery went well. The doc said that the tear was bigger than the MRI showed. Two of the four muscles that make up your "quad"ricep were torn. They decided that since (and I quote) "he is a big boy, and his legs are like tree trunks" they should put him in a full leg cast to insure that he will not bend his leg and rip out their repair.

More Fun to Come!
D

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Prognoses

So H.D. has the fracture arms, his prognosis is good. He is to wear his splits for the next 4 weeks, although he can take them off around the house when he is resting and not bumping around, sleeping, and eating. They will be sore if he over does it, but he will be fine!

Scott's prognosis for the short term is surgery. He will go on Monday for out patient surgery to repair his torn quadricep muscle.

I am luckily quite healthy. Aside from the fatigue taking care of all for a week or so and my ragweed allergies. LOL :P

More to come on the outcome of Scott's surgery on Monday! Think about him and wish him good luck on Monday.

D

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

The Mayor Blowing Smoke up my Dress

Ok so I am disappointed with our recycling services in town. Seems asinine to say that you have a progressive system and regress by removing glass recycling from your services. See for yourself.

From: Denise Wegener [mailto:
Sent: Wednesday, August 13, 2008 9:33 PM
To: Fahey, Mayor Mike
Subject: Recycling Question

Dear Mr. Mayor,

I noticed an article online about the Elkhorn Sanitation Department's partnership with RecycleBank at http://earth911.org/blog/2008/05/14/omaha-sanitation-service-to-offer-recycling-rewards/ . I was curious to see if there is any plan in the future for
Omaha to participate in this program. Additionally, I must say that I am disappointed that glass recycling was removed from our recycling services. This removal of services is recycling regression and is promoting waste and furthering the pollution of our earth. Please consider changing the city's position on recycling glass, and please consider following Elkhorn's lead with a progressive recycling program.

Thank you for your time.
Denise Wegener


______________________________________________________________________

Dear Denise,

I received your recent email. I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts and opinions with me.

We are in the process of determining if the Recycle Bank program is possible in Omaha. In addition, our recycling program is more efficient, more environmentally friendly than ever before, and supported by the local Sierra Club.

Thank you for writing. Please continue to contact this office with issues that are important to you.

Best wishes,

Mike Fahey, Mayor

City of Omaha


*cough* B&@*$417 *cough* If you get my drift.

Disappointed...d

Saturday, August 16, 2008

I've had better days...

Weeks even.

Friday I had a great day at school. I was helping my student teacher and feeling good about our day. I got to H.D.'s school to pick him up and he was crying and hurt. He apparently fell off the monkey bars and landed on his arms. After 2 hours in the ER he has a buckle fracture in both of his forearms. Fun times.

He is in splints and is uncomfortable. Yikes times are tough at our house right now.
d

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

First Day of School

I hate and love the first day of school.

Hate:
All the paperwork they expect us to keep straight.
That I can not take my own child to school on his first morning.
Too many forms.
All the downed trees to make the 90-bajillion handouts we have to keep straight.

Love:
Seeing scared freshmen, they are so cute.
Seeing students that flock to my desk to check on me and say HI!!!
Seeing students in the hallway that scream "WEGENER" from far enough that I can not make out who they are.
Hugs from silly students that make me smile.

Are you noticing a trend here?

It was a good day. I got be silly in front of new students and have them look at me like I am from Mars. Good times.

Today we were waiting for the results of Scott's knee MRI, no call. UGH. He is able to walk on it without the crutches a bit so that is good. I think he will call in the morning and hound them to get the 411 about his gimpy leg.

All for now...I need to get a couple of things ready for school tomorrow.

d

p.s. if anyone reads the comments on this blog you will know that I was contacted to review a black and white picture book of Omaha history. I got it in the mail today. I will be reading and reviewing. I had it sent to school. I opened it and got SO excited to thumb through. It looks BEAUTIFUL! I am so excited to see what is really in there more than just a glance. Keep watching for "The Review." I feel so important. d

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Last Hurrah...?

We decided to have a fun family outing this weekend. Our final playtime in the sun. We went to Mahoney today to the water park. We were there for probably an hour when H.D. and Scott decided to try out the diving board. H.D. jumped. Awesome. Scott jumped. Not so Awesome. He bounced on the board and heard a pop in his knee. He took a long time coming up and the lifeguard was almost off her chair when he finally popped up out of the water. He was in agony and could not straighten his bent knee. After about 2 hours in the E.R., and lots of x-rays he is in a straight leg brace, and on crutches and vicodin, and was ordered to make an appointment with an orthopedic doctor. It was not broken but the ER doc says it might be an ACL injury but we will have to wait and see.

So much for a hurrah!

d

Friday, August 8, 2008

Off to an Amazing Start...

Well this year like every new school year for the last few has been a mix of excitement, frustration, physical, mental and emotional challenges. I am beginning my third year of teaching at WHS and I am LOVING it. I am starting to feel comfortable in my own skin as a teacher.

I have a student teacher this first semester, and she is a talented and bright young lady. She got her bachelor's degree first and then went back to complete a teaching endorsement much like I did. She is about 5 years younger than I was when I student taught. :) I am really looking forward to being her mentor and learning from her as well.

I have rearranged my room, recycled, reviewed, and realigned my grading policies and philosophies, cleaned my desk, purged my file drawers and much much more already in my first week back.

Every year our district has a big kick off and this year was no exception. They brought in Erik Wahl, a phenomenal speaker and gifted artist to speak to use about fostering and encouraging creativity and pushing the boundaries of "the conventional" with our students. I LOVED his message. I had goosebumps and tears in my eyes all at the same time. He was able to put words to my feelings about teaching. He presents to educators, but usually it is business people. I believe this clip is the latter, but you can witness his focus and amazing passion for creativity.

Enjoy!

Monday, August 4, 2008

BACK TO SCHOOL!

First day back to school today. Usual first day meetings, spiced up by our principal's sense of humor. She started off by telling us that she seeks out vacations that take her away from the "BS of daily principal life." I love her!

Tonight's activities at my house...one guess.

H.D.--Aerosmith Guitar Hero (of course)

Denise-- Begins with Bordeaux ends with Rose.

Saturday, August 2, 2008

The Coveted H.D. Birthday List

Star Wars Legos
Indiana Jones Legos

Guitar Lessons--(Talk to Mom for details)
Hip-Hop Dance Lessons--(Talk to Mom for details)

A Nintendo DS

Wii Games:
Lego Star Wars the Complete Saga
Lego Indiana Jones
Endless Ocean
Super Mario Galaxies
Alvin and the Chipmunks
Sonic Riders Zero Gravity
Rock Band

Movies on DVD:
Indiana Jones Raiders of the Lost Ark
Indiana Jones Temple of Doom
Indiana Jones Last Crusade
Indiana Jones Kingdom of the Crystal Skull


This is just a few of the things that he has expressed an interest in. I will update the list if I can think of something else.

D

Friday, August 1, 2008

Last Friday of Summer

Well today was officially my last Friday of summer. I spent the day relaxing with H.D.. We have been playing Wii, researching options for H.D.'s birthday, I weeded part of the terrace and Scott planted a big beautiful Hibiscus for me to start phase 2 of our terrace planting. It is time to start thinking about working on that some more now that I am home, and it is going to start to get cooler in the next month or so. I am tired of looking at weeds, baked dirt, and a smattering of plants few of which are flowering anymore.

I am looking for some drought tolerant, partial shade/sun, all seasons plants that would do well in poor soil for zone 5-6. WOW sounds like I am asking for a miracle plant! I am going to fertilize and compost so the mostly clay soil should improve. It is really too hot to do anything serious out there in the next couple of weeks. It was 90-ish today.

I haven't had much to blog about the last few days. H.D. and I swam Wednesday at the park and Thursday at my friend Steph's apartment. He is a FISH!

I think that tomorrow we might try to go to the water park, or maybe just the pool again.

Friday, July 25, 2008

New Do...

Today I went for a haircut and told her to CUT it this time. Has been long for way too long. I was tired of it.

I am not sure that I love it, I think I might want it a little shorter. It is one of those styles that is shorter in the back than the front, and I think I might go a bit shorter in the back. Maybe a little more layered and shorter in the sides. Natural curls gone crazy!!!

She donated the length of my hair to locks of love.



Thursday, July 24, 2008

Favorite Poem

One of my favorite poems. It is a new fave. I just ran across it while working on some curriculum planning for my ninth grade class.

I love blackberries so it is only fitting. I could eat blackberries until I turned into a blackberry!




Blackberry Eating

I love to go out in late September
among the fat, overripe, icy, black blackberries
to eat blackberries for breakfast,
the stalks very prickly, a penalty
they earn for knowing the black art
of blackberry-making; and as I stand among them
lifting the stalks to my mouth, the ripest berries
fall almost unbidden to my tongue,
as words sometimes do, certain peculiar words
like strengths or squinched,
many-lettered, one-syllabled lumps,
which I squeeze, squinch open, and splurge well
in the silent, startled, icy, black language
of blackberry — eating in late September.

Galway Kinnell


Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Chilling in NYC

One of my favorite pics of H.D. was when he was playing in the fountain in Battery Park.




Another of my favorites from NYC.



Monday, July 21, 2008

Montauk

Here are some pics from our trip to the Hamptons. The very end of Long Island is Montauk Point. H.D. got to see some surfers and he thought that was super cool. I think that we brought half of Montauk home with us in the form of all the rocks that H.D. collected on the beach. It is interesting to me that this point is very rocky with little sand. Beautiful views though...don't you think?




The wee people on the rocks are me, H.D., and cousin Jen.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

HOME at LAST

Although we had a great time with our family in New York, it feels good to sleep in your own bed!!! We left Deer Park, NY (Long Island) at 6:40 am on Saturday and arrived in Omaha at 5:25 am on Sunday. Not bad considering all the potty breaks, food breaks, and stretch breaks.

We were looking through pictures with Scott after unpacking today and I wanted to share H.D.'s Sandcastle from the day at the beach. This is the coolest most unfortunate thing I have ever seen.








ROFLMAO--That might not be an appropriate mom response but HaHaHaHa HA!

Darn High Tide!!!

We started the castle and moat far away from the water and in a matter of an hour or two the water met our castle. The reaction was priceless and what you didn't see was H.D. kicking the water and fussing about his broken castle. Too funny. Thank goodness Aunt Robin has an amazing camera to catch this moment.

d

Friday, July 18, 2008

NYC on Tuesday


On Tuesday we went to NYC. We rode a hop-on-hop-off tour bus around the city. It was nice because we were able to give our feet a little rest and to see the city from a different vantage point. It is amazing what you see when you are 20 feet above the street. I have a zillion pictures to share, some of them more flattering (clothed) than others (bathing suit). I thought I would show you our first minutes of NYC.


Pictures Courtesy of Aunt Robin's Amazing Camera!

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Montauk Point

Today we went out on the end of the Island to Montauk Point in the Hamptons. We saw the lighthouse, and surfers. It was a bit hot, and we were sweaty when we were done, but it was worth it. H.D. had a great time picking up rocks and stuffing my backpack full. I think I have half of Montauk in my backpack! We left Montauk and went to two wineries in the area Duck Walk and Pindar. I ended up spending my last 20 dollars on an amazing bottle of blueberry port that we tasted and 3 postcards. Tomorrow is a pool day we are swimming, doing laundry, and packing for home.

I will have a TON of pictures when we go home to post from Robin the shutter-a-holic. : )

Much Love.
d

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

The Beach

Today we packed a lunch and went to Cedar Beach. We all had a great time. Jen and I were jumping waves out in 4 foot water, Chris and H.D. were riding the waves on body boards. As the tide started coming in the waves got a little scary. H.D. wanted to come out where we were. He held on to the board. First wave, fun and ok. Second wave dumped him off of the board and out of my hands. He ended up taking his board in the face. He was bleeding from the mouth and once the blood was gone he had a huge gash in his mouth. I wondered when we got home if I should take him to have it stitched. Uncle Tommy said it looked ok...and they probably would not stitch it. He is pretty swollen and I bet tomorrow it will be bruised. That was all the excitement besides good salty fun that we had at the beach.

d
P.S. Harrison tried and liked fried squid, calamari, with his cousins.

Monday, July 14, 2008

We MADE It!!!

Aunt B, H.D., and I made it to NY. We drove through a smidge of Nebraska, Iowa, Illinois, Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and New York.

What a drive. 24 hours straight. We should have, could have been here earlier but...life happens. We stopped for breakfast in Ohio and the people took forever and there was a plethora of traffic in PA due to road construction. We had to wait at least an hour to get on to the George Washington Bridge, then the GPS and I did not jive. She told me to stay to the right and I had two stay to the right, right options. Needless to say we missed the exit for the Throgs Neck Bridge and I had to do a U turn into the Bronx and a detour through an unnamed park led us to a porta-potty where H.D. found relief.

We asked for directions because I did not trust what the GPS was saying. I was glad I remembered (from 10 years ago) the basic directions. A little help from a local and we were back on our feet. Over the Throgs Neck and onto Long Island.

Tomorrow we are heading into "the City." I hope to have some pictures up for Daddy who had to stay home to work.

We miss you and wish you were here.

Peace and love
D

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Cutest Video Ever

Check this little kid out. HE CRACKS Me uP






d

Straight Hair


Last night Steph wanted to straighten my hair. What do you think? SO WEIRD to see myself without my natural curls. Some times I think my curls define me...and my crazy personality, then I see myself in a different way when I see this pic. Hmmm...maybe I can be a straight laced girl with straight hair.

d

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Leavin' On a Jet Plane

Well today I leave for Columbus, OH and the Midwest Conference on Differentiated Instruction. It will be a bang up time! Actually, I am hoping for a wealth of good information.

I will get to see my good friends Becky, her husband Nick (hopefully, Nick is a baby doc so...schedule is a little iffy) and their baby Henry aka Hank the Tank. Becky is coincidentally attending the same conference, hopefully some of the same sessions.

I was trying to think of things to blog about today and it hit me. AUDIENCE PARTICIPATION or in the education world...ACTIVE PARTICIPATION.

OK...so I want to know about my readers' favorites. What are some of your favorite things.

I will start.

My Favorite Things

1. Spending time with people I love.
2. Talking (no big surprise there) and Listening, I think that is called "Conversation"
3. The Outdoors
4. Laughing
5. Pipe Tobacco Smoke (certain flavors/smells)
6. Chocolate
7. Wine Wine and more Wine
8. Farm Raised Homegrown Beef Steak(None of that Antibiotic meat you find in the supermarket) Mmmmmmm Medium Rare
9. Freshly Ground Coffee
10. Red Toenails

Obscure list in no particular order, and I could go on and on, I love so many things about life! Tell me as many or as few as you like and I challenge those of you who never post to POST. If you need a tutorial on posting check the archives from April or May. LOL :P

Much Peace and Love
D

Sunday, July 6, 2008

In My Own Bed

In my own bed for 2 nights. Leaving on Tuesday for Ohio. I am going to the Midwest Conference on Differentiation, and I get to see my good friend Becky.

I got to see my bro and sister-in-law this afternoon. I love spending time with those crazy cats.

H.D. is officially on a PaPa and Oma week. He has PLANS...He is going stick hunting, he and PaPa are looking for a diamond willow stick to make a walking stick. He is super excited about that! He has his boy scout book with so I think he may work on some stuff with PaPa, maybe a bit of golf, and tons of swimming. I think he might sprout gills this week if they let him.

I have Colorado pictures but I have not sorted them yet. I included one amazing picture of Balloonavista in Buena Vista.

Friday, July 4, 2008

Happy Fourth of July

H.D. had a blast literally the last couple of days, but thankfully I think he is firework-ed out. Tonight he let off the last of the $11 worth of stuff I allowed him to buy. He created a smoke ball show by lighting two contrasting colors at the same time, he also was allowed to shoot off some jumbo ground bloom flowers and something called a zipper. Oh...to be a 7 year old boy on the 4th.

I was thinking about the 4th of July and what it meant, and how completely ridiculous and commercialized it has become just like all other holidays. Don't get me wrong I love a good fireworks show as much as the next guy but people might as well be lighting dollar bills.

A few dollars=well spent entertainment, but where do they draw the line?

Well it is just like everything else I suppose.

My summer school travels to Kearney are finished and I am glad for that. It was a good time that had me really thinking about education, my teaching practices, what is best for students, and my philosophy of teaching. I had never considered myself a philosopher, in fact, the thought of philosophy scared the poo out of me. I think I have philosophy at my core now and I am not afraid. Philosophy is just a fancy way to say "Think Hard" as Dr. Potthoff urges us to do each class. I am...still.

Well that is enough deep thinking for this 4th. I am sleepy and will see if I can get to sleep between the bang of bucks going up in smoke. :)

d

Thursday, July 3, 2008

ALMOST DONE!

Today is the last day of classes. Last night Aunt Bon made us an AMAZING dinner of Mexican Chicken. It was tasty and we had a couple of glasses of wine. Wildhorse Merlot 2002, and it was great.

We are sitting in class trying to pay attention today, unsuccessfully. I tend to gravitate toward the guys in class. My theory is that I do not have enough estrogen to put up with female garbage. We are cracking jokes and having a good time. Thank Goodness.

Well more to come. I am off to fiddle with some software that I will never have the chance to use in my classrooms...such a perfect use of my time! *sarcasm*

d

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Mosquito Tuesday

Today I am recovering from a ZILLION mosquito bites. H.D. and I are in Hastings this week staying with Ma Ro while Oma and PaPa are in Lost Wages. Last night we went to Aunt Bon's and sat out on the patio. She is spoiling H.D. with fireworks and we all (H.D., Bon, A.P., and me) danced in the street with sparklers last night for the entertainment of Bon's neighbors.

I want to understand why it is that mosquitoes love me and munch me until I am crazy and they do not bother others. Is it a body chemistry thing? Can I take garlique to repel mosquitoes? Does garlic work on mosquitoes like it would for Vampires?

Off task in class right now, so more to come later...
d

Sunday, June 29, 2008

"Ten Ways That Confirm You Are a Parent Of a Child With Sensory Issues" from Ed Chapman

1. Instead of lists to organize your schedule, you start doodling Mayor Johnson pictures.

2. A statement like "Our OT ordered AIT, ASAP, to help with SI" makes perfect sense to you.

3. You order at a restaurant not necessarily what you have a taste for, but according to food color and texture.

4. You go new clothes shopping at second-hand shops (no breaking in necessary!).

5. The barber tools required for your child's haircut includes sedatives, a flashlight or night vision goggles, and a scissors silencer.

6. You break into hysterical fits of laughter when the doctor sends in only one nurse to give your child his immunization, and she exclaims "It will only take a second!"

7. Seven different meals need to be prepared for your family of four.

8. The thought of your child's upcoming dental visit gives you anxiety attacks that require medications and therapy.

9. You do a dance of victory after dry-kissing your daughter and she doesn't wipe her mouth afterwards.

10. You start wearing your socks and underwear inside-out because it really does feel more comfortable that way.

:) Too Funny!

Taken from: http://edchapman.tripod.com/SpecialLaughs.html

Monday, June 23, 2008

SID and Therapy

H.D. saw Karen his Occupational Therapist for our only summer session. Between vacations, ours and hers, we had about one time that worked for all. Poor guy really needed it. I was noticing more and more how "disorganized" his system was. Two of the many issues that H.D. struggles with are spatial awareness and sound. We were discussing how he does not seem to have any awareness of his own sound level, shouting and screeching around when he is excited or just constantly making noise, but how noises made by other people are really bothersome, disturbing, and sometimes frightening to him. Karen suggested we work more on the sound piece with Harrison. I am looking for special headphones and cds on the internet to support his need. While I was searching I found this really informative article about SID that I thought might be of interest to those of you trying to understand my kiddo, or might help someone who stumbles upon my page.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Awesome Slam Poet

Vacation was AWESOME!!!! While I wait at the mercy of my family to share pictures *hint hint* (our camera is TOAST)...I thought I would give you some "Toast" to think about.

Dan Leamen comes to our school to present his (edited) poetry to students. He has an amazing talent for poetry and specifically SLAM poetry.



Two cool sites to check out.
SLAM POETRY and OMAHA HEALING ARTS POETRY

Peace
d

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Book Suggestion


This is a great book if you are interested in social justice, or human rights. It is very basic and scratches the surface, but for a basic understanding and "eye opening" pick it up. Change...IT all starts with us...



Excerpt from Uprooting Racism Book Review by Denise Wegener

Marian Wright Edelman first female African American lawyer and founder of The Children’s Defense Fund once said,

If you as parents cut corners, your children will too. If you lie, they will too. If you spend all your money on yourselves and tithe no portion of it for charities, colleges, churches, synagogues, and civic causes, your children won't either. And if parents snicker at racial and gender jokes, another generation will pass on the poison adults still have not had the courage to snuff out.
Edelman’s words echo Paul Kivel’s message in Uprooting Racism: How White People Can Work for Racial Justice. Kivel’s book breathes new life into a much debated subject; racism and how we, as a predominately white society, should deal with the complexities that face us as members of a unique country. Kivel makes it known that though we have no control over the past and racism’s hold on our history; we do have control over the future. Additionally, Kivel’s scope of discussion is not limited to a specific group of people of color and includes Native Americans, Latino/as, Asian Americans, Jewish, African Americans and at times he discusses virtually every ethnic group that has inhabited the United States of America.

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

An Amazing Poem

This is a poem shared with me by a new friend. It is one of his favorites, and now one of mine...Thanks Ian.



THE CINNAMON PEELER
Michael Ondaatje

If I were a cinnamon peeler
I would ride your bed
and leave the yellow bark dust
on your pillow.

Your breasts and shoulders would reek
you could never walk through markets
without the profession of my fingers
floating over you. The blind would
stumble certain of whom they approached
though you might bathe
under rain gutters, monsoon.

Here on the upper thigh
at this smooth pasture
neighbour to your hair
or the crease
that cuts your back. This ankle.
You will be known among strangers
as the cinnamon peeler's wife.

I could hardly glance at you
before marriage
never touch you
--your keen nosed mother, your rough brothers.
I buried my hands
in saffron, disguised them
over smoking tar,
helped the honey gatherers . . .

When we swam once
I touched you in water
and our bodies remained free,
you could hold me and be blind of smell.
You climbed the bank and said

this is how you touch other women
the grass cutter's wife, the lime burner's daughter.
And you searched your arms
for the missing perfume
and knew

what good is it
to be the lime burner's daughter
left with no trace
as if not spoken to in the act of love
as if wounded without the pleasure of a scar.

You touched
your belly to my hands
in the dry air and said
I am the cinnamon
peeler's wife. Smell me.

Saturday, June 7, 2008

Ballooning...


Today...in Colorado we are partaking of a hot air balloon festival. I hope that we have some beautiful photos like the one taken above by Paul deBerjeois at the 2007 Balloona Vista Festival.

I will post our photos once we get home!

Have a beautiful and relaxing Saturday where ever you are.

Peace and Love
D

Friday, June 6, 2008

Happy Friday...

Photo of Nebraska!

As you are reading this...I am sure we are on the road! It is Vacation Time.

Oma and Papa (my folks for those who don't know) are taking all kids and grandkids to a cabin/house in Colorado outside of Buena Vista in a town called Fairplay.

This is what the colorado.com has to say about Fairplay...

If you picture a Gold Rush miner as a grizzled old guy leading a burro, you might still see that today in Fairplay! Especially during its annual World Champion Pack-Burro Races and celebration. There's also an annual Mountain Man Rendezvous, where you can watch re-enactments of Colorado's earliest days.

And speaking of early days, it doesn't get much earlier than this: at the nearby Bristlecone Pine Scenic Area outside of the nearby town of Alma, you'll see trees that were seedlings roughly 2,000 years ago. Twisted and gnarled, these ancient conifers were shaped by the ceaseless winds that blow across the mountaintops.

In Fairplay itself, be sure to visit the South Park City museum. It has a main street flanked by 30 or so historic buildings brought here from the surrounding area including a trapper's cabin, a saloon, general store, blacksmith shop and other businesses that thrived in the late 1800s. This amazing collection is only open during the summer months and is run entirely by volunteers.

Fairplay has also been called the fishing capital of Colorado. Anglers, be sure to bring your tackle, as you’ll want to throw a line in any time of year.

Sounds like FUN!!!
d

P.S. I know that my adoring audience could not possibly survive without their daily dose of "D" so I have set up some pretty cool blog enters for auto-publishing while I am gone!

Don't miss me too much :P

Peace and Love from the Mountains....
D

Wednesday, June 4, 2008

For Sharon...

I love Celtic Woman, and my dad's cousin Sharon needs a little love, and encouragement.

We love you Sharon.

Two beautiful songs for everyone to enjoy.
d

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Trying...

Ok...So we are preparing for the big family trip. We are leaving Friday EARLY, much to Scott's dismay. Actually he will probably be the most awake because he requires the least amount of sleep between the 3 of us. I offered to take the first shift of driving though. I think I will let HD stay up until he makes the decision to go to bed...he may sleep a lot in the car that way.

So first let me start off by saying that I had 2 meetings yesterday, and was gone until about 5:30-6, took HD and signed him up for swimming lessons. We got back and got finished with dinner around 7. The Stanley Cup Playoff started at 8. I am rooting for the Pittsburgh Penguins, so of course I had to watch that, and because it is intense I could not concentrate on anything else. The game went into triple overtime, and then the Penguins won it at about 11:50 pm.

The night was shot.

So today, almost noon and I am blogging. Made a tasty breakfast of eggs, bacon, coffee (for me), and blackberries (for me). HD is newly addicted to bacon, he at almost an entire package alone yesterday. Crazy.

Internally I have a sense of urgency about all of the things that I need to get done by Thursday night, but wow...getting motivated to do it, that is another story.


Inspiration to get it all done.













P.S. Happy Birthday Dan. My big lil' bro turned 29 yesterday! :) I can't wait to see you in a few days! I Miss You and Love You.

And...

Super Sad...Bo Diddley Died Yesterday!


Monday, June 2, 2008

Poem for Kelli


I wrote a poem inspired by a photo that my friend Kelli took. The poem is a rough draft, first go, but it is about the picture and Kel.



Rough draft style, but...here she goes.

Ode to Kelli
By D. Wegener

I am here.
I stand alone.
My nature draped gently around me.
All the while observing the heady aromas.
Their arrogant cheeky display of loveliness surrounding me.
A royal and spiritual dance unfolds in the breeze.
My beauty less showy, but equally important.
My exquisite uniqueness is magnified by their prosaic sameness.
I stand alone.
I am here.


Blogger Kelli said...

I LOVE IT! And this is weird, but...it totally reminded me of an experience I had the other day; it describes me with in a situation I was in.

7:21 PM

Blogger Denise said...

I am glad. I was inspired by the picture and YOU!
miss you...love ya
D

Sunday, June 1, 2008

Funny Sunday

Tonight we went for a drive... a leisurely drive. We tooled around the Blair area then on Highway 30 by the Loess Hills in Iowa. We are looking for good Earthship territory. Okay, well I was staking out Earthship territory and Scott was tolerating my silliness.

We saw a doe and fawn, various red wing blackbirds, and other such birds.

It makes me wish more and more for a windfall or lottery so that I can buy the digital SLR I have been lusting over for months. I really want to get back in to photography. I have some very pretty pictures I took with a point and shoot in my teens and in France. I think I could have some masterpieces...and a damn good photoblog. :)

Well off to make lists for our upcoming trip to Colorado. I am going to try the post dating option on my blog so that I can provide you (Whoever you are) with my quick wit and amazing blogging skills *sarcasm* even while I am gone!

Peace
DW

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Tuesday

I have been thinking a lot lately about people. Why are people so rude?

Occasionally I meet people that are compassionate, caring, and genuine but for the most part people are horrible. I am sure that everyone has witnessed some jackass in a car speed up instead of let another vehicle merge after blinking for a block. Another situation, people in a warm dry car who can not yield to pedestrians. Or another, people who make comments about others within earshot.

What is the virus that is attacking human kindness.

Is it apathy, low self esteem, is it out and out malice? Why are people so incredibly hurtful to others? Weigh in and let me know what you think...I would like to have some theories on this.

D

Saturday, May 24, 2008

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

POETRY IN PROGRESS...

(Let me know what you think. This is the roughest of rough drafts as I was trying to think of things to blog about I just started typing and reflecting or vice versa. Sort of a conscientious stream of poem tonight.)

Eve is dawning.
While day noise hangs on to the last bits of sun;
Night sounds abound.

As slender fingers of light clutch the horizon;
Birds whistle their content tunes.
Bugs begin their dusky buzzing.

So much more aware of the sounds and smells of my Mother than I have ever been.
How can the masses ignore her beauty?
Can they not see how their actions cause her pain?

Mother, an ivory-skinned, ebony-haired, ruby-lipped woman;
Shows off her curves, her colors, her rich sultry voice, her bosom, her perfect scent.
Her feminine glory shows the world how intense and righteous she is.

How can the masses ignore her tears?
Will my Mother's beauty sustain when my son is raising his sons and daughters?
My awareness is the sweetest sweet and the bitterest sweet.

Monday, May 19, 2008

Graduation means...it's almost SUMMER!!!


This past weekend was graduation for my seniors. I had the privelege of being invited the parties of a couple of amazing kids. Dylan and Jimmy invited Steph and I to their parties. This picture was taken at Jimmy's party.

One of the most rewarding things about teaching is forging bonds with kids like these. Really amazing, funny, smart young men.


Friday, May 16, 2008

Interesting Article about Sensory Integration Disorder

One of my colleagues emailed this article for me to read. I am constantly reading about SID. My son was diagnosed with Sensory Integration Disorder earlier this year. I love helping people to understand this disorder, and my kiddo!



Therapy Helps Children With Sensory Disorders Find Joy In Play
updated 12:15 p.m. CT, Fri., May. 16, 2008
TheOmahaChannel.com

OMAHA, Neb. - A clothing tag on the back of a shirt is a scratchy annoyance to most people. But for up to 20 percent of the population, that tag causes a stabbing pain, so much that a person can't focus on anything else. Melissa Irving-Gass noticed her 1-year-old, Keelan, was deeply troubled by clothing tags and many other stimuli.

"He wouldn't go anywhere near grass. He didn't like carpet. He didn't like different textures of baby food," Irving-Gass said.

The child also wasn't sleeping through the night and had tantrums that couldn't be calmed. In addition, he had language delays.

Keelan was diagnosed at age 1 with Sensory Integration Disorder. It's a disorder that causes the brain to misinterpret sensory input.

"When I started with Keelan, he wouldn't even touch grass," said Children's Hospital occupational therapist Karen Felderman.

She said 70 percent of her practice is devoted to young sensory patients who are often living with additional developmental disorders.

Felderman's therapy includes organized play to help patients work through their discomforts. Part of Keelan's therapy involves placing the boy on a turn table on the floor and slowly spinning him while he plays with puzzles or strings beads.

She also hands him items with different textures and praises him when he engages in the toy or follows her directions.

"Basically what you do is work with the senses they try to avoid and make it a normal state so the child can play," Felderman said.

Adding stimulus to play makes the child focus on the task at hand. Felderman cheers for the boy when he succeeds at stringing beads.

Irving-Gass also dug into a bin full of dry rice and beans, searching for plastic toys Felderman hid there.

"Basically it's going to feel like pins and needles, very noxious. It hurts when he first touches it," she said.

Felderman said children with the disorder will often gag on certain food textures, engage in rough play or have an emotional meltdown when they come in contact with typical childhood playthings like crayons or clay.

She said these children also have difficulty socializing.

Irving-Gass is now 3 years old and speaks with one or two words at a time. He communicates with sign language. Speech therapy is also part of his routine. His family has to avoid noisy parties or events where sights and sounds might overwhelm their child.

"I hope he's able to participate and the other kids don't say, oh, he's weird. I just want him to be a typical child," she said.

On a recent vacation, Irving-Gass sat Keelan in a field of grass and snapped his picture. Proof to Felderman that two years of therapy is paying off with a young boy who's beginning to find joy in simple play.

The boy is also living with Angelman Syndrome, a rare genetic disorder that makes it difficult for him to communicate and can cause developmental delays.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Poetry

So my final unit in Writing and Speech (freshmen) is Poetry. I love this unit. I love to see kids come alive and "get" poetry, express themselves, and enjoy English.

Yesterday I shared a revised version of my Untitled Poem, blogged here in March, at a Poetry Jam in large group with the kids. They dug it...that was cool, although how many 14-16 year old poetry critics do you know. Once in a while it would be nice if someone really told people the truth. I envision the interaction going something like this:

Denise: "Hey Bob, wanna read my poem and tell me what you think?"
Bob: "Sure..."*reads* *looks up*
Denise: "Well..."
Bob: "It's Shit"
Denise: "Super Shit or just Shit"
Bob: "Super Shit"
Denise: *shrugs* "Well no where to go but UP."

Something that is not S.S. is a poem I like that I ran across again in a Love Poem compilation that I bookmarked some years ago.


Petronius Arbiter Translated from the Greek by Kenneth Rexroth.

Good God, what a night that was,
The bed was so soft, and how we clung,
Burning together, lying this way and that,
Our uncontrollable passions
Flowing through our mouths.
If I could only die that way,
I'd say goodbye to the business of living.


Monday, May 12, 2008

How to Comment...TAKE 2...for Oma, Robin, and all you other anonymous posters.

I was reading through blog comments and realized that I was guessing who a couple of comments belong to, so I thought I might provide a mini tutorial.


You can type your name or initial(s) if you prefer in the space provided and then it does not just show up as Anonymous

Although this picture is fuzzy when it is small you can click on it and see what I am talking about.

Happy Commenting.

DW

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Class, Saturday, and Mother's Day

Class--I am done!
That is a little misleading as a teacher. I am still teaching classes this semester, but last week I finished the two classes that I was taking for grad school.

I ended out with a B in one class, and an A in the other.

Initially I was disappointed, it is the first B of my graduate career. Then I put it in perspective. I had pneumonia this year when school started, I was the Speech Team coach, I have a seven year old, I had papers to grade and lessons to plan, and the list goes on.

The only reason that I earned a B was because I worked a deal with the instructor to let me stay in the class and turn in the work I was behind on from having pneumonia instead of having to drop the class and retake it. It was a good move. My work was all A work, but I earned a B because she did take off some late points.

C'est la vie.

Sometimes I wish I wasn't such a damn perfectionist when it comes to grades.

Saturday
Emily got us tickets to the USHL National Playoff Game last night. We went to see the best hockey game I think I have seen. Now I know why she loves it so much. It was a great game. We left excited with sore throats and painted face...one guess who was painted.

Mother's Day
Today I spent Mother's day lazing around in bed. I was reading magazines, snoozing, cuddling with H.D., and didn't emerge from my bedroom (for more than a half an hour) until about 5 p.m.. It was AMAZING. I just relaxed.

Now I will have to make up for it this week by doing yard work and house work, and grading. :(

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Star Wars to make you Smile

H.D. and I love this video...Thought I would share for a good laugh.






Also this one cracks me up...though I didn't show H.D.
Damn Monsters...tee hee


Memories...

The Osborn house was made famous in a 1993 movie written, directed, and produced by one of my high school friends.

This was a blast from the past, total walk down memory lane. Reminded me of how much fun this time in my life was. Enjoy...

Do you think that because the Osborn house was in a film...it is worth more? It might attract collectors! :) LOL.


Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Been a While...

Well it has been awhile. Things at school settled down, but this time of year is hectic. Kids are trying to pass, seniors trying to graduate, I am trying to maintain my sanity.

I was trying to think of something interesting to blog about and nothing really came to mind. I visited the dentist yesterday...boring. I need to shop for summer clothes because I lost (don't ask how) all of my summer clothes...boring. I have a paper to write today...boring. So I decided to think back over the past couple of weeks to see what motivates me.

For a long time I have been debating my use of plastic anything at home. There has been more recent media attention for plastic, specifically #7. I found this article from 2005 published on the National Geographic Green Guide website about plastics.

I am tossing all #7 drink bottles from our home and we ordered Sigg bottles.

I am looking for old school glass storage containers to rid my world of plastic storage containers.

As I am aging I am turning more green. I like this, but I struggle with it too. The other day I saw a person (in a handicapped parking stall mind you) toss garbage out into the parking lot at Lowes. It was all I could do to contain myself. In my mind I walked over, picked up the garbage and tossed it back in their open window. I wish I had done that.

Do I sound fanatical?